Some of you might not know it but at the moment I´m on holiday in New Zealand. I´m having an absolutely marvelous time. This must be one of the most beautiful countries in the world and I´m very lucky to have my friend Ingerid and her boyfriend Isaac as local tour guides.
On the day I was leaving, I received a message from home that my grand mother had passed away. She died 5 days before her 91st birthday. We knew she was weak and ill because of age but didn´t know how long she would stay with us. I was just about to board the plane from Schipol to Beijing when my mother wrote me the sad news. She said that my grand mother would have wanted me to go and my stomach feeling told me that I should travel despite feeling really sad.
All settled and rested in Auckland I found out what great travel plans Ingerid had made for us. We were supposed to head north to the Bay of Islands and from there make it up to the New Zealand "North Cape" called Cape Reinga. The original plan was to leave today Sunday the 26th but we ended up leaving Thursday the 23th in stead. After one night at a backpacker place in the Bay of Islands, we got up with the sun and boarded the "Awesome NZ bus" that we would spend the next 11 hours on.
Our tour guide and bus driver Barry made the trip and unforgettable one. He told us great stories along the route. Among them was the spiritual importance of Cape Reinga. The Maori believe that the spirit of the dead travel to the afterlife from Cape Reinga. They actually leave the land through an 800 year old tree. Barry told us that when visiting the cape, we should think of our loved ones. He also shared a very personal and sad story of loosing his son at the age of 5. He explained how important the cape is to him and how he tries to visit the tree he has planted there in remembrance of his son.
Since this was the day of my grand mother´s funeral, I decided that I would plant a tree for her as well. It felt wonderful being able to mark the day even though I was on the opposite side of the world.
Grand mother Asbjørg´s tree
The whole atmosphere on the cape was magical. It´s truly one of the most amazing places I have ever been. It might have had something to do with me being quite emotional that day but the color of the sea and land, the sound of crushing waves and cicadas "singing" all around us, the great company in Ingerid and the sun and warm temperature in addition to the wind keeping us from melting away, really made the day perfect.